——这样的女人，可悲·可赞
每一部电视剧，每一部电影都有他们的精华，都有他们的看点。好的电视，电影不是看票房有多高，而是看他们在观众的心里留下了什么，为社会带来了什么，他的影响力有多久……
无聊中无意间看了《豆腐西施杨七巧》，然后就一发不可收拾。其实故事很简单，也很朴实。故事是发生在东北的一个小山村里，一对儿年轻的夫妇杨七巧和钱满贵，在回家的途中偶遇一个弃婴，并把她带回家收养，后来随着孩子的逐渐长大和杨七巧祖传豆腐生意的越做越大，一家人经历了一系列家庭冲突、艰苦创业、生意争斗、孩子病危、身世之谜、合家欢乐等坎坷与温情的故事，来反映现代新农村的生活风貌。
看完这部电视剧，我想会有很多人和我一样：认为故事太过完美，虚构的成分较多，七巧太傻了，傻到让人不敢相信，傻到甚至让人觉得她是愚蠢。现实生活中，没有一个女人会为了收养一个弃婴而置自己于如此艰难的境地，每次地面对别人的寻衅挑事，都以德报怨，却最终换来别人更加的肆无忌惮。看着让人心疼，让人愤愤不平，怎么会有如此大度不计前嫌的人，是导演刻画得太完美，还是这样的人就在我们身边，只是我们不曾注意？？？
尽管这样，我们还是含泪忍泣地看完的整部电视剧，因为我们相信好人终归有好报，期待七巧会有美好的结局，会有更加幸福的生活，就像她的心灵那样纯洁无暇，像她胸怀那样无私宽广。
杨七巧这样的女人是善良的，是宽容的，是大度的，是坚强的。生活中遭受的种种欺辱，让人觉得可怜，但是过程中表现的坚韧绝对值得人人为她点赞。
善良是人类温情的源泉，但是并不表示软弱，面对自己女儿小爱被人欺负，她依然毫不犹豫地站出来，与那些恶势力做斗争。
宽容的女人，如同空气里的清新剂，能给人带来一缕温馨、一丝余香，宽容别人就是善待自己。正是七巧的宽容最终影响了全村的人们，也让那些曾经处处与她作对的人感到汗颜，她的所作所为换来了她应有的回报，她的坚持是值得的。
林则徐曾写过这样一副对联：“海纳百川有容乃大，壁立千仞，无欲则刚。”但是大度并不表示视而不见，什么都不管，大度的女人能在祸端骤起事化干戈为玉帛，这样的女人很难得，杨七巧无疑使这种女人更好的诠释。
女人的外表可以柔弱，但是内心不能柔弱。而杨七巧却是外表内心都很坚强的女人。面对女儿的病危，豆腐事业的破产，丈夫的离家出走等这些家庭变故，她一个人撑起了整个事情的重担，这样的画面让人为她竖起大拇指。
杨七巧的身上折射出现代新时期女性的必备素质：进得厨房、出得厅堂；顾得家庭，拼得事业；有思想，聪慧干练；职场上的能手，家里的好手……这样的女人让人怜惜，让人赞叹！！！
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